How to Become a Supermom and Perfect Dad for Your Kids
Becoming a parent is a natural blessing and becoming a responsible parent is a good thing to be. Being human we never settle for something that is just good and when it comes to children we never consider the second best option. You can say that you are doing great at being a parent when your children call you super mom or perfect dad. Trust us this is not an easy title to get. Let us tell you about a few ways through which this goal can be achieved.
Giving Quality Time
Money can help buying good toys and getting a better future for your child however it can never compensate the need of time they require from your side. Children are like plants and your time is like water to them. They cannot grow properly if they lack in parental attention. Quality time means that you provide them undivided attention and focus completely on them when you are with them. It is unethical to keep working or using your phone while you are spending time with them as it lowers the quality of time that you are giving them.
Be Their Best Friend
Kids seek comfort from their peer group if you do not provide it at home. Be like a friend with them so that they can share each and every secret they have with you and they don’t have to look outside home for their emotional comforting. Give them enough confidence so that they can talk to you about anything without hesitation. If you are friendly with children they are likely to have a more positive image of yours in their mind. Be the best support system that they can ever have and tell them that you are available for them at any time if they need your help.
Consider Their Choices
Don’t impose your decision on your children. They don’t like when their parents do that. Consider their choices and tell them about the right and wrong things. Small things like the dress they want to wear or the things they like to eat should be considered to the level that is healthy for them. Considering their choice gives them a sense of involvement and participation in the decision making. Ultimately it makes their decision making skill better for the future and they also love you more when you do so.
All the above mentioned ways work like magic and make a very positive impression of yours in the vision of your children. It is hard to be a perfect parent but it is more important to keep your bond strong with your children because they are a part of you. All you do for them will make them a better person in time to come. Sometimes parents have to choose hard way to teach their children certain things for their own good. Make sure before you use the hard way you tried working things up through the lighter ways like talking to your children and helping them understand where and what they did wrong and how they can make things right.